The story of Esther’s courage is inspiring and a reminder to rise up in the face of uncertainty. As we all face the unsettling feelings and questions the Coronavirus presents, we must rise. Facing this adversity with teens, however, is especially important in this developmental stage. To rise, we must believe God’s promises.
“We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28 (NIV)
How Families with Teens can Face Adversity Together
There is much good that can come from facing adversity together as a family and society. Here’s a few!
Use this time to draw closer to your children and have meaningful conversations that can teach them powerful social emotional skills such as self and social awareness, self-management and empathy. Here is a wonderful resource to walk you through these conversations.
School closing can offer time for teaching your children some of the most basic life skills, such as how to sew on a button, cook, write a check, balance a checkbook, chain the oil, change a flat, iron a shirt, set a table, and how about reading a book together and discussing different perspectives.
It can also be a good time to prepare for college entrance exams and review college and career options… you get the idea.
Steps for Facing Adversity
Where do I start?
Pray first and trust God
Practice spiritual and emotional self-care – remember children are watching and taking their cues from your responses. Check out these short helpful video links:
For parents - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aYlXLMaFzgU
For kids - https://youtu.be/kiVpWZBXLug
4. Practice physical self-care
5. Be purposeful about this time and keep a routine
See Adversity as an Opportunity
Learning to cope well in a crisis builds resilience in your children – an invaluable life skill. This is a great opportunity to build bonds with your family and fellow man. Let’s rise!
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